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We're just a few miles from his Salt Lake City home, but the houses in this neighborhood are far larger than his own, the lawns vast and fastidiously kept. Cordray, 49, is bearded, with shaggy brown hair and metal-rimmed glasses. He's soft-spoken but not shy, and there's an urgency in his voice as he explains how for nearly a decade he drove this route every few days, making a pilgrimage that even he admits was obsessive.
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Despite the increasing recognition of fathers' rights by the courts, and the media hoopla over the new involved d, more children than ever before -- nearly 25 percent -- live without biological Pop, in homes with stepfathers, in blended families or with single mothers.
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An unprecedented of children are the offspring of deadbeat d or adult men who impregnate, then abandon, teen-age girls. Erotic massage by older women 53546 those men are fathers. The easy separation between siring and parenting, abetted by biology, is at the root of donor insemination: sperm donors, often recruited from elite college campuses, are encouraged to focus on fast money rather than the ethics of anonymous paternity.
There are currently more than sperm banks in America, with 11, private physicians and about fertility clinics also practicing donor insemination. Until recently, any controversy over donor insemination has centered on quality control.
Sperm banks screen semen for HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases -- New York State has among the strictest policies -- according to guidelines set by the Centers 3 girls at taco horny penpals tuesday night Disease Control.
But private physicians practicing donor insemination are not obligated to do so. The United States does not have the kind of central registry that exists in England and Sweden to limit the of children one donor can sire and to prevent abuses like those committed by Dr. Cecil Jacobson, who was convicted on 52 counts of fraud in after secretly using his own semen to impregnate dozens of women in Virginia.
In the concern over health and safety, however, some say the core ethical issue of donor insemination -- its effect on Free 80121 porn children -- has been lost.
Although the American Fertility Society says it can't predict the psychological consequences of hiding the truth from children, many heterosexual couples do so. Even among lesbian couples and single women, who tend to be more open about donor insemination, disclosure goes only so far: the child's potential right to know its biological father, for instance, has proved especially thorny, dismissed as a threat to the recipient's sovereignty and the donor's privacy.
Right from the start -- and even, to a certain extent, today -- secrecy was emphasized to protect men: to guard the donor against paternity claims and, equally important, shield infertile husbands from pd feelings of emasculation. In the first recorded use of donor insemination with humans, in Philadelphia innot even the woman knew. She and her husband had consulted a physician about their infertility; she was inseminated with the sperm of the "best-looking member of the class" of medical students while anesthetized.
Only her husband was told how she became pregnant, and luckily he was delighted by the news.
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He feared that an earlier case of syphilis had caused his sterility, and didn't want his wife to find out about it. It was after World War II that donor insemination with fresh semen supplied by doctors or medical students became more Adult mature looking meet adult, and couples were advised simply to pretend that the resulting offspring were fully theirs.
They were instructed to tell no one: not the legal system, not the child's pediatrician and especially not the child. Any records that could later identify donors were destroyed, a practice that is still widespread.
But a small, vocal group of adult donor offspring -- as well as ethicists and even Woman seeking casual sex Apalachicola Florida sperm banks -- have begun to protest such casual deception.
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Bill also knew something else, deep in his bones: he knew he wasn't his father's son. His brother, Mike, the oldest of the four Cordray boys, was adopted, and for a time Bill thought that he might be.
But his mother insisted he was their natural child, and anyway, they were open about Mike's status in the family. Still, Bill Cordray says he knew there was something amiss. After all, Albert Cordray treated Mike -- not Bill -- as his "real" son, the one with whom he spent time and encouraged in sports. I thought, 'Why is this happening? Jeff is eight years younger than Bill, and, although he was a donor-inseminated baby, too, he never suspected.
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But this threw an extra element in that was pathological. Knowing my Dad's capacity for love, I feel things would have been better if everything had been open. At least there would have been a better chance. I thought the marriage was a sham. He married and had his own family, but his anger didn't fade.
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He realized that all he really wanted to say to the man was, "I love you. Believing that perhaps he'd been wrong in his suspicions, Bill went to his mother to confess and apologize. As soon as he brought up the subject, she interrupted. She told him the name of the clinic where he was conceived, the date, the name of the nude adult woman. All she knew about the donor himself was that he was a medical student at the University of Utah, class of Cordray went home and told his wife, Pauline, the news.
Bill also wrote to Jeff, against his mother's wishes. The shock was that they'd waited so damn long, until after my brother and Dad had died. It was cruel. I had to tell .